A few days back, I received a call from a guy.
Apparently he approached me 4-5 years back and I gave him my number.
He could remember exactly where we met, what I wore that day and the conversation that I had with him.
If I were still in my teens, I would probably have gone gaga over this whole incident. I would think of him as a sweet boy who bothered to take the effort to remember details even after so long.
But now, the cynical dandygal is NOT impressed at all.
What is this nonsense???
I can actually guess how his system works: collect numbers, take down detailed notes so that he can impress and then call if he runs out of young and naive girls to fuck.
That explains the 4-5 years lag. Too many numbers till he lost count, isn’t it? That’s how most men hunt. The fishing net technique: Cast it as wide as possible and then see how many are left on the net eventually.
Now, why did I give him my number in the past? Was I that desperate for attention? Sigh.

Hey dandygal,
I think you’ve got it right this time.
My rule of thumb almost never fails -
“Men trade love for sex, women trade sex for love.”
“The struggle goes on.”
That said, there are good fish out there -
“A good man is hard to find.”
But sometimes I settle for -
“A hard man is good to find.”
(Not original quotes.)
-Amy
His empty skull will be able to explain for the five-year lag.
I guess he forgot to upgrade his CPU that why it took him 5 years to process that him suppose to call you after clubbing that night and chat the night away with you.
But if you were to ask me DARN it sound freaky for me to do that…… remembering the whole conversation???? I could remember what i said to someone 1 hr ago sometimes…..
Maybe you left him a deep impression
till today than he recall that was why he hesitate until 5 yrs later.
LOL. To sum it up, I think he took 5 years to find his notebook to match his empty skull. :p