I’m not a GPS.

I am a person that values my space, privacy and freedom a lot.

I absolutely hate whereabouts-tracking. It’s totally irritating and suffocating.

I hate questions like “what are you doing?” and “where are you?”, especially when you ask me every hour. The most disgusting question being “what are you eating?”, after I had tolerated with your nonsense and replied to your “what are you doing?” with “Lunch”. Wtf? What am I supposed to answer you? Three stalks of vegetables and 2 spoonful of rice? What added value do you get out of such questions? And when I cannot be bothered to reply you, please take that as a subtle hint. DON’T repeat your question. How stupid can you get?

You know, these questions are really meant for special occassions. I don’t mind if you ask me what I am doing if you haven’t contact me for years. I don’t mind if you ask me where I am if I am supposed to meet you and yet I am late. I don’t mind if you ask me what I am eating if we are heading out for lunch together. You get the idea. BUT if you are asking me those questions every now and then, what is wrong with you?

It’s never about concern. It’s obsession and it’s psychotic. I’m not a GPS for you to track my movement. And mind you, I have really low tolerance for such nonsense. When you pissed me off for the first time, I’ll tell you outrightly to stop it. And when you don’t, I questioned your audacity. Don’t give me silly replies like “I’m just asking”. Slap you. Get a better opening line the next time you wanna text me.

My boyfriend doesn’t even do that to me (thank God!). So stop it. Get a grip. No one should be insanely tracking anyone else down. 

Space, people. Space. Too much is never healthy.