Probably an overdose of HK drama,
I’m thinking…
It’s actually pretty strategic to be in the position of a third-party.
You won’t have to spend so much time worrying and guarding just so that your partner stays by your side. He isn’t meant to be, anyway.
You are always in his mind whenever he goes through routine sex and daily activities with his ‘legitimate’ wife or girlfriend. “What if I’m with HER now? It would be so different….” And yes, you are THAT refreshing HER who has slowly crept into his wandering heart.
He splurges on you more than the wife. Secret holidays. Lavish presents. Fanciful dinners. Just probably because he knows he’s attached or married and so he owes you something. Or maybe it’s because he feels there’s a need to impress in order to keep a young and sexy girl by his side. Or maybe, it’s just the passion of new love at work.
Of course, at the end of the day, no matter how good you really are, you can’t expect a real committment because most people treasure and stick to their original partners. Or it could be because they don’t want to lose what they have already gained.
And fingers and curses will always be directed to you for breaking couples up, especially with the promise of karma hitting back.
But if you think about it again, who’s the real winner?
Yes, the legitimate wife or girlfriend may win by keeping the man (and the scars) eventually. But truth betold, that no-longer-secret lover will always be in his mind. If you haven’t realise, she has already been part of his life memories. Histories are made that way.
If you ask me, I think that the victorious one is NOT the person that gets to keep the man, for nothing last and his heart wanders.
She’s the one who manages to steal his heart via her skills of seduction and manipulation. The longer or more stable that the legitimate relationship is, the more successful she is.
She creates chaos, confusing him with definitions of love and excitement.
She comes and goes, capitalizing on her temporal position to get what she wants.
That instant passion, that honeymoon period, that thing called love.
Who’s to judge and say that a third-party is always the one in the wrong?
Quote me: Who’s the Slut?
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lol sounds like you have been watching alot of the Moonlight Resonance !
I beg to differ.
In the case which you’ve cited, the real winner is the guy. Both girls still cling onto him even when they know that he’s fucking the both of them.
UNLESS! Both girls decide to take revenge. Then, he’ll turn out to be the biggest loser.