I wonder if you think along the same line as me.
My friend has just gotten married and knowing that he’s a virgin (because he explictly said so in his blog before), I can’t help but look at pictures of his beautiful wife on facebook, with pity.
That’s bad sex for the start.
Trial & errors, premature ejaculation, cumming fast and you-name-it-and-he-can’t-do-it.
Cases like this, I think they really need wedding blessing to go through the… erm… anti-climaxes in life.
Or hopefully the wife is a virgin as well, so she wouldn’t know that the husband will be fucking her belly button for the next 20 years.
I seriously hope they have a happy marriage.
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Oh come on… practice makes perfect ain’t it?
Hi Dandy Gal…if you ever get the chance read ‘On Chesil Beach’ by Ian McEwan, a wonderful novella where the story is about the pitfalls of virgin marriages. Thank goodness these are now few and far between. How hold is the guy, to still be a virgin?
I honestly do not imagine marrying someone and knowing that you are committing to them being the only sexual partner you will have for life is healthy. Surely at some time either must wonder what sex with another would be like.
Also, good luck to them both, but if they have made the commitment now to marry – why not start practising before the wedding night? It could be one awful experience. For sure I would guess the man will experience premature ejaculation…is there any man who did not experience this during their first time? I would not hesitate to admit that I did, but that was a long time ago, and also as I am uncircumcised the whole thing was very painful too.
I wish them all the luck in the world, but hopefully they will be able to communicate well when the moment comes (no pun intended).
i’m sure they need the luck. either that, she must really love him to erm… conquer all.
I was reared in a Christian home and later, while in the US Navy, I spent much time immersed in the Independent Baptist group. I see their reasoning in abstinence before marriage, but I also see the flaws and they are many. Why don’t these people just wake up and realize that responsible sex between consenting adults outside the bonds of marriage is just a good way to get past all the fumbling and fooling around. I mean, hell, there’s classes and learning to be had for relationships, marriage, parenting, etc.; why wouldn’t you want to learn about sex prior to plunging headlong into a lifelong monogamous relationship (presumably) with your soon to be best friend (if not already)?
Yes, I know I’m going against all I’ve been “taught”, but life’s lessons have taught me otherwise. I’m wiser for having lived and learned.
Trip X, very well-said. i prefer to see that lessons learn in school or elsewhere are merely guidelines in life. At different stages or different centuries, we should re-look at the feasibility of these ‘rules’ and adapt accordingly. Think one main point that I shared with you is that as long as people are responsible about pre-marital sex, why not?
“…fucking her belly button…”
That’s funny. Haha!
Poor couple. I hope they are watching a bunch of educational sex videos and learning from them, i.e PORN. What better way to learn?