Communication

Sex is the new form of communication, is it?

Our generation in particular.

No superfluous words exchanged. Hit it up at the bars. Bring home. Strip. Fuck. Say bye, or probably not.

Fuck buddies. Playmate. What other terms? Losing count.

A few movies stirred my emotions. Ghosts of the Girlfriends Past, Lie to Me, Fling and Love & Other Drugs.

What do we really want?

These days, are we taught (in someway or another) to stay away from commitment, or at least not to have faith in a happy ending? I recalled having this same feeling a year back. (Read this post) Fuck-and-go is the trend. Anything else, we are either behind time, or find their existence extremely difficult to believe. 

I want to believe though. I’m trying to cut that pessimism that creeps in now and then. So far so good.

Love – as of this point, seems to me to be a reflection of how much you deserve. Have you love enough to deserve a person completely? That’s one of my take-away from the movies. Probably that’s why it’s easier to forgive when cheating is at the start of the relationship.

Number 2 pointer on my list – Jealousy is a powerful tool. Jealousy kills. As much as I try not to get engaged in any games, I realise, if probably used, jealousy do more than manipulation. It’s intriquing as to how much we want, and how far we will go, to own a person. But judging from how quickly we ditch our material possessions, I wonder yet again, if human-beings (or our partners in name) are ever really different from the latest technology gadget, or some in-fashion clothes.

Sometimes random sex is just too tempting. That’s point number 3. A fact that we should all recognize, but we usually brush it aside for sake of moral values or what-nots. Anyway, it boils down to the universal rule – know your limits.

Heavy heart today. I don’t know why.

Bear with my emotional rants.