It’s a brand new era with a whole new lot of expectations. When I see a couple together, I assumed they have had sex – be it just 3 months of dating or even a week.
I no longer believe in stories like, “They have been together for x years but they are still virgins. They are waiting for marriage.” I mean, how is it possible to constantly kiss and hug and yet not venture further?
When people say that marriage is the grave to romance, that’s because back in the olden days, people do not have sex before marriage. When sex is bad and in times of quarrel, there really isn’t a way for people to kiss, make out and then make up. Do you seriously want that to happen? (Psst: angry sex can be hot. The aggression – oohlala!) It’s 2012. I think the right mindset today should be: bad sex after marriage is the grave to romance.
It’s like heading to the mall to shop. I never like the idea of “once broken, considered sold”. I prefer it when there are free trials, so that I know what I am getting into. After all, sex is a huge component of a relationship, or even marriage. In fact, aim for more sex during the relationship. We know that sex will get worse (in both quantity and quality) the longer we date a person. So it’s mathematical. Start with a large number (say everyday), then when it eventually cuts down, it won’t get too low.
Happy New Year. If 21st December 2012 is supposedly to be the end of the world, you wouldn’t want to die a virgin, would you?
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I won’t believe a girl when she says she’s a virgin until I finger her.